Wedding Ceremony or Marriage Life?

Setiap orang...basically, setiap perempuan mahukan perkahwinan yang perfect.
But...bila difikir balik, what do you want more?
The wedding ceremony, or being in the marriage itself?

Perempuan ni nafsu ada 9.
Kadang2, tak fikir panjang sangat.
Sometimes, we don't realize, we actually want to get married to relieve the ceremony itself and not the marriage life.
But, in truth, are you capable of being in the marriage life?
Are you sure that you are ready to get through it?

Kalau orang Melayu ni, bila kawin, they only think about..you know what la kan.
Tapi, try to think realistically.
Terutamanya bagi orang perempuan ni...
How sure you are yang your hubby-to-be ni tak akan neglect you because of his work?
Boleh ke korang ikut cakap suami?
Bila couple ni pun, susah nak ikut cakap...nanti kawin, WAJIB ikut cakap tau!
(Tapi kalau benda2 yang dosa, tak boleh la kan)
How much sacrifice yang korang mampu buat?
Can you sacrifice your freedom?
Can you sacrifice your morning sleep?
Bulan puasa, nak kena bangun lebih awal siapkan makanan...
Even kalau tak puasa, kena kejut subuh and kena la siapkan breakfast for suami.

Aku tak berani nak kata ready or not.
Kalau tanya aku, aku boleh kata a bit more than 50% aku yakin boleh buat.
Tapi, kalau tanya FF, aku tak tahu dia anggap aku ni ready ke tak.

Sebenarnya, FF banyak ajar aku untuk be ready in coming situations.
Apa2 pun.
Aku rasa, adanya dia...aku tak payah nak risau.
Aku yakin FF boleh bimbing aku...kalau aku lupa, dia ingatkan.
Aku rasa kalau FF tak buat Master, mungkin aku dan dia tengah prepare for the wedding.
But it's ok like this.
The time yang ada sekarang, need to mature more, to settle pasal rumah & kereta insyaAllah and untuk ready for the marriage life tu yang penting.

Haha. Aku banyak pulak bercerita pasal kawin kan.
Well, dah nak dekat bulan 10 dah.
So, banyak benda dalam kepala.
And plus, ramai sangat orang nak kawin ni ha.
So, it's kind of reminder that it's going to be tough to prepare for ours,
and also reminder of what's to come.

Cheers!