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It's been some time...
So much things...

Aku masih dalam proses menyiapkan album 2 org client aku.
Lepas tu, no more weddings!
Turn aku pulak nak kawin! Hehe.

Aku tau some people dah tanya pasal package2 kahwin aku bla bla.
Buat masa ni no weddings tapi kalau engagement insyallah boleh lagi.
Sila email aku and the details will be given.

Anyway, aku rasa nak kahwin ni, byk benda nak kene fikir.
But as long as you take it easy ok kot.
Tapi dalam part aku lak...aku terkejar2 sket.
Sebab album xsiap lagi...tapi at the same time aku nak kene jugak kluar settlekan hal kahwin.
So, xdpt lah nak take it easy sgt.

Alhamdulillah, r/ship dlm alam pertunangan is ok.
Korg yang nak tunang tu...jgn la dengar sgt ckp org lain.
People will always say tunang tu mencabar la ape la.
Sampai ade org takut nak tunang lama2 and so forth.
Trust me, kalo korg really is into the marriage takkan ada putus2 tunang ni.
Msk bulan ni aku dah bertunang selama satu setengah tahun.
Ups and downs mmg ada.
But we are happy with each other.

Aku belajar byk benda lepas tunang.
Letting go of benda2 kecik and be tolerant when needed.
Time tunang ni, aku bg FF time for his friends to be with him.
Sebab nanti lepas kahwin, dia dah xdpt nak lepak2 smpi pagi.

Even so, korg kene pandai la.
Jangan lak bg die smpi pijak kepala korg.

Although, aku nak tanya la to korg2 yg lelaki ni...
Kalau korg nak kahwin...korg excited tak?
And pada korg...bile nak buat majlis kahwin ni...mana aspect yg important?
Example, baju korg ke, photographer ke, aturan majlis ke, ??
(Duit tu mestilah yg utmost important kan...this is other than that)

Itu lah satu je yg aku rs btol2 aku blom dpt dr FF.
His excitement.
Aku nampak excitement die bile bincang psl duit, financing, dengan member2 die, beli rumah, survey property...
Tapi not at this.
Bila aku tegur dia marah.
Bila aku tanye benda2 kahwin pun dia bising.
Nak suruh die buat decision on stuff about kahwin dia xleh nak buat.

Korang mesti tak dpt bayang how FF marah or membebel or merungut and stuff.
Aku biasanya pun xde la nk ckp2 psl what I really feel psl FF ke apa kat sini.
Tapi aku takut...
Kalau dia rasa pressured being married to me or is actually not ready.
*sigh*

Ok lah. Signing out.
Til next time yg entah bile.

13 comments

  1. Gua04 June, 2009 15:15

    ilin...
    batek tu perancangan dia bnyk tu

    mgkn dia x crite kat kau..mgkn dia akan crite dan tnggu masa sesuai

    jgn push dia sgt..die mmg suke smue lo-profile ja

    bachelor party tema apa?
    aku dh bli kostum singa dah

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  2. Khalisa Ridzuan04 June, 2009 15:46

    laki mmg susah nk di ajak bincang psl bab2 ni.lagi ditanya lagi dia pressure.pelik gak.sll perempuan je beria-ia yang gigih buat itu ini nk kawin.sigh...

    mana ye nk jumpa laki yg gigih bersama-sama?hahaha

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  3. Gua04 June, 2009 15:54

    sebab laki klua duit..sebab tu dia mcm susah je..

    nak ckp x boleh,krg awek kecewa..hahahah

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  4. faridfadhly05 June, 2009 14:48

    cang..bukan financing la, finance okk..

    org lelaki cara excited dia lain la pulak..mana nak cekau duit, mana hala tuju lepas kawin etc..haha

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  5. hawa08 June, 2009 15:05

    releks2 je siapkan gambar aku tu.. diorg tak tanye gambar, diorg sibuk tanye aku nak hanimun kat mane je.

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  6. hapPY zuRa~~09 June, 2009 11:54

    yuhuu.. lelaki ney excited diek pelik sket.. kejap mcm berkobar2.. cth sanggup call tgh2 mlm pkl 2/3pg, just to let u know that he had a dream about how his wed attire design.. haha! and when it comes to money wise, diek akan jd sedikit down.. x mcm gals, kite akan excited all the time wpun duit kite x berapa nk cukup sgt.. heheh.. good luck ilynn! wed prep sgt seronok!!~~

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  7. Khalisa Ridzuan11 June, 2009 15:27

    hahahha.kelakar ah kaum lelaki.konfem duit gak jd perkara runsing depa.hihihihi.nasibla kan.;p

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  8. Anonymous11 June, 2009 18:46

    pada aku, aku mmg excited nak kahwin, sape x excited wei... bagi aku aspek yang penting ialah, perjalanan wedding yg lancar tanpa ada apa2 sangkut, sume kene make sure goes smoothly, takdela mak andam lambat ke, photographer lambat ke, atau lain2.. sbb tu la every wedding patut ade personal wedding manager on the wedding day itself sbb masa wedding tu takkanla kita nak sibuk2 pastikan sume bende going well, make sure everything is there, right at specified time,dahtu mak bapak nak sambut tetamu dan masing2 ada role masing2.

    so, kakak first aku yg kawen, mak aku jadi manager sbb yg first kan, yg wedding second, pakcik aku yg jadi manager, dan yg ketiga kakak aku, dan yg keempat aku taktau sbb aku xdpt pegi, masa tu kat india.. sedih do xdpt pegi...huhu...

    batek excited la nak kahwin, sorok2 jer.. ko ni pun...and i can see he is ready.

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  9. ILynn Virgobiru12 June, 2009 01:23

    ikan: tula..kalo bole mmg aku xnk sshkan die psl duit tu semua
    aku xmntk pun hantaran brp2..tp mak aku ni mntk mcm2 aku yg jd stress
    kawin bkn duit smata dowh..tp perception org zaman skrg mcm tu la

    weh bachelor party batek korg ah handle
    aku xmsk cmpur huhuhuhu

    p/s: bachelor party yg bermakne confirm bile ade apa2 berkenaan dgn bola ke arsengal

    lisa: tu cik abg ko ade situ tuuu huhuhuu keiwa die kang

    FF: you ni bg la komen romantik skettt =P

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  10. ILynn Virgobiru12 June, 2009 01:32

    hawa:ohh ko honeymoon nk gi mane? hehhhhe

    zura: itu la...nak tgk diorg ni excited cm ssh sgttt
    rs down plak bile kite tanye nk wat cmne..bole plak marah la sound2 la...

    skrg ni tgh bz dgn edit gamba+wed preparation
    uishhh mmg mencabar! and penattt sbb byk bende nk pk

    jabbar: alaaaa...die tu cite kat ko jee....dgn aku? waa~~! =P
    aku xtau la manager utk wed aku sape..ni manager yg mcm mane ni nnt?
    amik arsene wenger la...mesti batek teruja!

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  11. ILynn Virgobiru12 June, 2009 01:34

    hawa:ohh ko honeymoon nk gi mane? hehhhhe

    zura: itu la...nak tgk diorg ni excited cm ssh sgttt
    rs down plak bile kite tanye nk wat cmne..bole plak marah la sound2 la...

    skrg ni tgh bz dgn edit gamba+wed preparation
    uishhh mmg mencabar! and penattt sbb byk bende nk pk

    jabbar: alaaaa...die tu cite kat ko jee....dgn aku? waa~~! =P
    aku xtau la manager utk wed aku sape..ni manager yg mcm mane ni nnt?
    amik arsene wenger la...mesti batek teruja!

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  12. ladysue21 June, 2009 12:58

    1. betul eh tunang best? hehe. first time dgr tuh. betul, org slalu ckp time tunang la byk dugaan laaaa...ppuan/laki lain dtg laa..ex dtg balik laaa..bla blaa...i guess if there's still insecurities then thats where the problem is kottt..

    2. org skang ckp, yg penting tu makanan sedap. ahax! selain tu, makeup mesti cun... dan majlis mesti warm..pengantin round la jumpa sume org...takat sangkut2 problem sana sini kdg2 tak boleh elak..

    3. tak excited? ahax...men just cannot be helped i guess. ah well, that's why they need to hv women ard. yea i guess its true drg stress psl duit sbb drg kena tanggung kita pasni..hehehehe

    4. omg awak nak kawin! haha tiba2

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  13. ladysue26 June, 2009 01:57

    Ili, nak tambah..bg perhatian kat kasut. hikss...

    kasut yg lawa jarang org perasan tp kasut yg hodoh kompemmmm perasan..

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